Pickup Artist Secrets Revealed – How To Pick Up Women

Author: Joseph Matthews
Website: www.artofapproaching.com

Feeling clueless when it comes to picking up women? These handy tips will help get you started on the path of success to getting the women of your dreams!

Are you looking to start picking up women, but clueless about where to start?

Chances are no one you know can help you learn to pick up women. Your friends are probably just as clueless as you are, and your family is of no help at all. Even those “Dating Experts” you see on TV are full of it, because they have to cater to the feminist media to keep their careers on track! (And as we all know, the mainstream media doesn’t like helping guys get laid!)

The fact is: Teaching guys how to pick up women is a touchy subject!

If you want to have success with women TONIGHT, you’re going to have to follow some practical advice that works right away. Lucky for you, I’m about to share some with you right now…

First off – here’s what you DON’T need to pick up women.

You DON’T need to look like a “male model.”

This is a huge mistake that almost all men make. Little do they realize that close to 85% of women place more importance on how a man makes them FEEL as opposed to how he actually LOOKS.

So if you’re insecure about your looks, don’t sweat it! There’s still hope.

Second, you DON’T have to spend a lot of money or drive an expensive car!

Many of the best ladies men I know never spend more than $30 on a date – heck, some of them don’t even own a car! (And if they do, it usually isn’t a very nice one!)

You’ll find that women can be very forgiving when it comes to how much money you make or spend on them, if they LIKE you! And part of picking up women is to get the girl to like you, right?

Finally, you DON’T have to be famous, be a certain type of ethnicity or nationality, or anything else you can think of.

The secret is to have a great personality – this will make any other obstacle you think you have to getting a girl to like you obsolete!

When you know the right way to talk to women, nothing else matters.

Unless you’re currently a master pickup artist, you may not have a whole lot of success with women right away when using these tactics – after all, it takes time to practice and learn from your experiences. But if you actually apply what you’ve learned, you’ll soon find your success with women will skyrocket!

You’ll want to try and go out as often as you can to talk to women – especially when you’re first starting out. You may be intimidated to go to “high pressure” environments like bars or clubs where it’s difficult to pick up women, but they are great practice grounds for you to hone your skills.

But regardless, make a point of going out to pick up women a certain number of times a week – after all, practice makes perfect!

When you’re first starting, you might not have a whole lot of success with the ladies. But over time, as your experience builds, your confidence will grow. Every success and failure you have is a learning experience meant to make you better at picking up women.

Remember: The more experience you have, the easier it’ll be.

And what you’re doing when you go out to clubs and bars to pick up women is gaining experience!

When you’re going out to pick up women and gain experience, it’s important to look as good as you possibly can!

(Notice here that I’m not saying you have to be “good looking.” I’m saying you need to “look good.” There is a big difference between the two. You don’t have any say about what you look like, but you DO have a say in your appearance – your hairstyle, the clothes you wear, what cologne you put on, etc.)

Try and dress nicely – wear clothes that fit, that match, and that look good on you. If you’re hopeless when it comes to fashion, get a savvy friend to help you out.

Keep in mind – you don’t NEED to dress nicely to meet women, but it will make it much easier on yourself if you do! Not only that, but the better you look, the more confident you’ll feel.

Keep an out out for every opportunity to pick up women that comes your way. Attractive women are just about everywhere, and if you notice an opportunity to talk to one, don’t let it pass you by!

Finally, every good pick-up follows a structure. Its a series of steps you can actually REPEAT time and time again and get similar results.

The structure is:

Find a girl.

Walk up and meet her.

Gain Rapport.

Build Attraction.

That’s it! Four simple steps. You’ll find that if you’re able to effectively meet women and gain rapport with them, you can build attraction quite easily.

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