Pick Up Lines That Work – How To Start A Conversation

Author: Joseph Matthews
Website: www.artofapproaching.com

Pick up lines have a very bad reputation.

When have you heard some of the cheesiest of pick up lines like the following…

“Are you a parking ticket? Because you’re a little fine!”

“Your name must be Gillet, because you’re the best a man can get.”

“Your daddy must have been a thief, because he stole the stars and put them in your eyes.”

Using a line like these will get you nowhere with a woman fast, chances are she will not even speak to you.

But because the bad pick up lines get so much attention, people think ALL pick up lines are like this.

This simply is not true.

A good pick up line will actually do what it says – help you pick up a girl!

The true point in using pick up lines is to begin a conversation.

PERIOD.

After the woman begins talking with you, then you work your magic of getting her to date you, her telephone number and the emotional connection.

But if you can’t get the conversation started, then you can do anything else!

You not only talk to a woman, you engage her, by drawing her into a conversation, and this is the only means to continuing with your goal.

Do you know that good pick up lines do just that?

Do you know that when most men meet women they are at a loss for words to begin talking to a woman? They try to think of something off the top of their head, while often missing the opportunity of meeting a nice woman, before they can think of something to say.

It is essential to have at least a couple of good working pick up lines, especially for those times when you are nervous and cannot think of anything original that helps you take action.

Never, consider that you can slide by with a line such as:

“I know you from somewhere, don’t I?”

All women know this to be a lame pick up line. You might think you’re being clever when you say this, but you’re not.

Also, doing things like asking for directions, telling a girl she looks like a certain celebrity, and complimenting her on a piece of clothing are BAD ways to pick a girl up.

Why is this?

This is because these lines do not engage the woman into a conversation with you, once she answers your question, she may not show interest in conversing with you.

Bad pick up lines have yes and no answers. Good pick up lines get a woman to thinking about her response, while encouraging an emotional reaction from her, this causes her to want to continue talking with you.

How do you engage a woman in conversation?

Asking her opinion of something is the easiest way to do this, since each woman has an opinion and they like sharing their ideas, especially about relationships.

Good pick up lines work like this, for example. Say something to the woman, like this, Hi, I need you opinion on something, do you think it is normal for a woman to try to time a pregnancy so that her baby is born within a particular zodiac sign? I would really like to hear the opinion of a woman about this subject.

Then you can follow up with a story about how you know a woman who wants to make sure her kid’s zodiac signs are compatible with hers so they will be well behavied as they grow up.

These various types of subjects for conversation can be about:

1. Children 2. Marriage 3. Astrology 4. Pregnancy 5. Relationships

The number of ways you can go with this are endless. Some of my favorite follow ups are:

“Do you believe in astrology?” (this can lead into discussions of fate and destiny)

“What is your sign?” (No matter what she says – be sure to mention your sign is compatible with hers!)

“What do you think of children? You seem like the mothering type.”

This could go on forever, surely, you get the idea.

A good pick up line design draws a woman into an interestingly deep conversation, while allowing you the opportunity of getting to know one another better and becoming familiar with one another.

This is how you begin conversations.

Once you reach this point, ask for her telephone number and set up your first date.

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