Flirting Advice For Men

Author: Joseph Matthews
Website: www.artofapproaching.com

I would like to ask you a question.

Have you ever met a girl you liked, and despite your best efforts, you got stuck in the “lets just be friends” category?

Do you ever wonder why this happens?

Chances are it was because you did not know how to flirt properly with the woman.

You should know that flirting is essential in the attraction process. If you do not do it at all or do it wrong, you may blow your chances with a woman.

So why is flirting so important?

The answer is simple really; the process of flirting creates sexual tension.

When there is no sexual tension within your interactions, there will be no attraction. When you do not have attraction, this places you in a different category.

You guessed it – A FRIEND!

So when you know the proper way to flirt with a girl, your chances of attracting her go up exponentially.

Flirting is no big secret as many might consider, flirting is a lot of fun. Flirting does not work only if it is not done properly.

Flirting with a woman is an art form. Flirting is the ability to communicate the romantic interest you have for a woman, while being subtle about the subject.

These are mixed signals.

You communicate one thing yet your words say something very different.

Some of the most common mistakes men make while flirting with a woman include:

MISTAKE #1: They Are Way Too Obvious

Some men find it overwhelming when they feel attraction to a woman and then spit it all out at once letting her know how they feel. This type of presentation of information places the woman at a disadvantage of deciding what she feels for the man.

You must lay the proper groundwork ahead of time, so you can avoid rejection.

MISTAKE #2: They Are Not Obvious Enough!

On the flip side of that coin are the guys who communicate NO INTEREST AT ALL, yet in their minds they think that the girl should know how they are feeling. Then, when they make their move, the girl is surprised because up to this point, she had no idea the guy was interested in her!

MISTAKE #3: They Rely On Words Instead Of Actions

A great deal of flirting has to do with what you say, but the more powerful techniques are NON-VERBAL body language stuff. Little things like an eyebrow raise, a head tilt, or a wicked smile can give new meaning to an otherwise benign remark.

MISTAKE #4: They Take Things Too Seriously

Flirting is a lighthearted and fun practice, it is when serious romantic gestures begin that causes the sexual tension to break down.

If you’re not having fun when flirting – and more importantly, if the girl isn’t having fun – then you are doing something WRONG.

We could list more mistakes; however, this should provide you with a clear picture. Do you wonder what the right way to begin flirting is?

You’re going to want to use as much sexual innuendo as you can. This is a great way to flirt. But the key here is to be SUBTLE.

Let us say you are at a bar, for example and the woman you are with orders a drink and then asks if you would like one as well, you can jokingly say to her, You aren’t trying to get me drunk and take advantage of me, are you, while adding a nod and a wink.

Flirting communicates your attraction, although you never come right out and say it. Flirting is a lighthearted fun form of insinuation.

Another example may be, when a woman makes a sexy remark, you say to her, Stop trying to tempt me, you vixen, you know I never kiss a woman on the first date.

See how that works?

As you begin flirting more and more, you begin to get a bit more obvious about your interests, although you never really step over that line.

You will notice how the attraction between you and the woman begins to build. Then one day you find that a harmless bit of flirting has turned into seduction.

The real fun begins at this point.

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